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Howie wrote:Hey. So me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 3 months. However, i start school again on Thursday in San Diego. She lives in Los Angeles (where i lived during the summer). How do you guys think i can effectively continue the relationship and keep the momentum going? Calling her every night/every other night, etc? Going home every weekend or every other weekend to visit her? Something else? I guess i'm just confused right now.
Sounds lame, i know, but i was just wondering
Art Vandelay wrote:I'm going to come across as a pessimist at best here, but my honest advice (having been in similar situations) is to give up on it now. I'm assuming that you're young, 18? 19?, so go out and enjoy your youth. I know that you probably feel like she is the one, and this will work out and be great and everything...but the fact of the matter is, it probably wont. End it peacefully now before it all goes to crap in a few months.
Now...all that being said, it's not impossible to keep a long distance relationship going. My wife and I, before we were married, lived on oppostie sides of the country from each other for a year and a half and maintained our relationship. So if it's really worth it, go for it, but it will take a lot of work.
Howie wrote:Alright, so i guess it can work if i want it to enough. It seems like alot of you guys or your friends have stuck through times like this to be with the girl that eventually became your wifes (not that i want to get married yet, im only 21!). But you guys are also right, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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