Omaha Red Sox wrote:
The Miner Part 2 wrote:alright well that's wishful thinking. i think the answer is obvious. these guys are knobs, ignore them and get on with your life like you were saying. who gives a damn what garbage they spread about you.
Yep, basically. These guys aren't your friends.
Don't stress yourself out over it. Most people lose their high school friends (if not all of them, most of them) after high school. It's normal.
In high school, you have to make friends with the people there because...well, that's who's there.
I've found that the friends you make after high school, especially in college if you go, are the friends that will last. You don't make friends out of necessity not to be bored, you get more of a choice of your friends and you're all a lot more mature and working towards making something of yourselves. Sharing the same major or plan in life with someone will help bind you together better than sharing a lunch table. I have no remaining friends from high school. Everyone scattered all over the country and lost touch. If they were TRUE friends, they would've kept in touch with me. However, friends I've made in college are still around, probably helped by the fact that we were in the same place to start careers instead of wanting to flee the place we'd been for 18 years and bored of it. I even married my best friend from college.
It's not you. Kids are just jerks at your age.