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Zito is God wrote:Ok, so I've never had multiple relationships at the same time, just seesm really wierd to me.
I hate cheating, or even the thought of cheating so I automatically will tell you I would never ever cheat on the person I was dating. I don't see the point. If you don't like to be with them anymore, just break up with them rather then cheat.
My question is, how do guys date multiple women at the same time? Do you like tell the girls "Oh yeah, I can't make that show with you, I'm going out with this other girl I'm seeing Danielle" or what? For that matter, how do you handle the whole situation? I guess these are called "open relationships" where theres no commitment and a lot of (Trying to be PG here) "Boat Rides" from many girls but how do you do it? I can't even bring myself to imagine what it would be like dating multiple women at the same time. Whats your take?
_Simulacrum_ wrote:Yeah, I know what you mean. I'm waaay past the multiple girl phase too. Such a hassle, and building a real bond with just one lady is much more rewarding.
I used to play around with the whole multiple girl thing in late high school and early college. Unfortunately, the only women I was able to find that were willing to have a fun time without any kind of relationship or quasi-committment are the kind of women who... well, we all know what women like that are called. So even though you accumulate a number of girls to play with, at the same time, you're just one of the many guys that each girl has on the string as well.
But then there's the girls that really like you and actually want a relationship with you. There's no way to not eventually hurt them and make them hate you if you continue to play around with them and take advantage of them. And that's no fun, to have a girl really and truly hate you.
I'm sure every guy goes through a similar phase. For me it just got to be hollow, boring, and repetitive.
so he calls Girl B back and tells her "i'm sorry, that excuse i gave you was really lame. the truth is an old college friend i havent seen in ahwile just got in town and we want to do drinking. i'm real sorry i lied". Girl B "oh, that's ok, go have fun with your freind. i'm glad you told me the truth"...when the truth was in fact a Double Lie.
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