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Postby DaQ » Fri Apr 29, 2005 5:05 pm

Mets4Life wrote:Girls like to play with your mind...its their specialty
Shes "unsure" about it...this can mean two things
1. Shes actually unsure about it
2. Shes using it as an excuse to bail out of the situation

But thats just from my personal experience :-t


I feel you are correct - I feel it is one of those two. Which one? I don't know.
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Postby Mets4Life » Fri Apr 29, 2005 5:06 pm

DaQ wrote:
Mets4Life wrote:Girls like to play with your mind...its their specialty
Shes "unsure" about it...this can mean two things
1. Shes actually unsure about it
2. Shes using it as an excuse to bail out of the situation

But thats just from my personal experience :-t


I feel you are correct - I feel it is one of those two. Which one? I don't know.


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Postby Lofunzo » Fri Apr 29, 2005 5:16 pm

My advice to you would be to let it rest for the time being and also stop talking to people in the loop about this. People that age gossip all the time and that won't help matters.
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Postby DaQ » Fri Apr 29, 2005 5:34 pm

Lofunzo wrote:My advice to you would be to let it rest for the time being and also stop talking to people in the loop about this. People that age gossip all the time and that won't help matters.


I didn't tell this guy about the whole situation -he already knew about it (because he and his gf are the ones I mentioned above that we'd "double date" with). I just told him, since I do get along with him that if anything comes up about me when he's talking to the girl, just mention something about how I'm not exact;y sure what's going on. Knowing him, he'll probably calm her down too and maybe "realize her senses" - for better or worse.
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Postby hybrid » Fri Apr 29, 2005 6:06 pm

I know this might seem like a really far out there, crazy idea ... but I'd just ask here and say you were confused about it. You don't have to do it right now, try and relax for a day or two so you don't seem clingy, also gives her time to think about it if she is unsure. If the girl doesn't like and respect you that you have gone to her and honestly asked what's up, then she really doesn't deserve your time in that fashion. You can of course be friends and what not, but if she likes you ... she likes you and it won't matter.

Sorry if this seems like odd thinking, but all those power trips and head games really aren't my type of thing.
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Postby Mets4Life » Fri Apr 29, 2005 6:13 pm

hybrid wrote:I know this might seem like a really far out there, crazy idea ... but I'd just ask here and say you were confused about it. You don't have to do it right now, try and relax for a day or two so you don't seem clingy, also gives her time to think about it if she is unsure. If the girl doesn't like and respect you that you have gone to her and honestly asked what's up, then she really doesn't deserve your time in that fashion. You can of course be friends and what not, but if she likes you ... she likes you and it won't matter.

Sorry if this seems like odd thinking, but all those power trips and head games really aren't my type of thing.


Yea...theyre werent mine either and I probably still won't use the advice I gave even though it may work
But yea...I dont know...Girls are just crazy
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Postby The Punisher » Fri Apr 29, 2005 8:46 pm

kingctb27 wrote:What a Thread, Once Again :-°

I'd do what Wrveres said.....

1. Go to the Store
2. Buy some Latex
3. Take care of business

:-D


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Postby DaQ » Fri Apr 29, 2005 8:48 pm

kingctb27 wrote:What a Thread, Once Again :-°

I'd do what Wrveres said.....

1. Go to the Store
2. Buy some Latex
3. Take care of business

:-D


Dunno if that wo work YET (maybe down the road though... ;-7).

Something else to think about: Someone gave me an idea of what I could do: perhaps go out with her as friends first, with this other couple and perhaps it will develop into something then? What do you think?
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Postby DaQ » Fri Apr 29, 2005 9:40 pm

DaQ wrote:
Dunno if that wo work YET (maybe down the road though... ;-7).

Something else to think about: Someone gave me an idea of what I could do: perhaps go out with her as friends first, with this other couple and perhaps it will develop into something then? What do you think?


Oh yeah, do you reccomend I wait till Monday to tell her this (when we're in school) or take the blind risk of IMing her about this?
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