In the leagues I commish when we vote on possible rule changes the voting decides the new rules. We don't vote on much and we don't make big changes but once the discussion is over and the voting begins thats the new rule.
I'd think the owner who won would come back again; it might not be "fair to him" but all he has to do is mix in 1 more SP per week to get to his innings. Generally owners that win come back again; if he leaves thats 1 owner gone which probably is about average in a keeper league.Not making the change once you've voted on it probly does more damage than making the adjustment to 10 more innings. I think your league over-reacted to a team that finished 4th and happened to win the playoffs. Now that its done and has been put to a vote I think you make the switch and keep the league together
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