CadensDad wrote:I’ve never written about my personal problems on here, but I really need the advice of the Soundoff forum..... advice on what could be a crucial, life changing decision. I’ve suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me. I've picked up on all of the usual signs… Phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up,.... my wife has been going out with the girls during the week a lot recently, although when I ask their names she always says, “Just some friends from work, you don’t know them.”
I always stay awake to look out for her when she's coming home, but she always walks down the drive. Although I can hear a car driving off, as if she has gotten out of the car round the corner. I started to begin to think that maybe she didn't want me to see who was really dropping her off. She's very secretive with her cell phone(which just started a few months ago), and goes to great lengths to keep it with her at all times. I know she does this in fear that I may get into it and see who she's been talking to.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife because I love her and I think that deep down, I just didn't want to know the truth. However, last night she went out again(on a Tuesday) and I decided to really check on her and find out the truth. I decided I was going to wait in my garage so I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home. It wasn't long before headlights turned onto our street and as they got closer I could definitely see that she was with a "guy friend" from work. When close enough, his headlights flashed through the garage. As I hunkered down and hid, it was at that moment that I saw something I couldn't believe.
CadensDad wrote:I’ve never written about my personal problems on here, but I really need the advice of the Soundoff forum..... advice on what could be a crucial, life changing decision. I’ve suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me. I've picked up on all of the usual signs… Phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up,.... my wife has been going out with the girls during the week a lot recently, although when I ask their names she always says, “Just some friends from work, you don’t know them.”
I always stay awake to look out for her when she's coming home, but she always walks down the drive. Although I can hear a car driving off, as if she has gotten out of the car round the corner. I started to begin to think that maybe she didn't want me to see who was really dropping her off. She's very secretive with her cell phone(which just started a few months ago), and goes to great lengths to keep it with her at all times. I know she does this in fear that I may get into it and see who she's been talking to.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife because I love her and I think that deep down, I just didn't want to know the truth. However, last night she went out again(on a Tuesday) and I decided to really check on her and find out the truth. I decided I was going to wait in my garage so I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home. It wasn't long before headlights turned onto our street and as they got closer I could definitely see that she was with a "guy friend" from work. When close enough, his headlights flashed through the garage. As I hunkered down and hid, it was at that moment that I saw something I couldn't believe.
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CadensDad wrote:I’ve never written about my personal problems on here, but I really need the advice of the Soundoff forum..... advice on what could be a crucial, life changing decision. I’ve suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me. I've picked up on all of the usual signs… Phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up,.... my wife has been going out with the girls during the week a lot recently, although when I ask their names she always says, “Just some friends from work, you don’t know them.”
I always stay awake to look out for her when she's coming home, but she always walks down the drive. Although I can hear a car driving off, as if she has gotten out of the car round the corner. I started to begin to think that maybe she didn't want me to see who was really dropping her off. She's very secretive with her cell phone(which just started a few months ago), and goes to great lengths to keep it with her at all times. I know she does this in fear that I may get into it and see who she's been talking to.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife because I love her and I think that deep down, I just didn't want to know the truth. However, last night she went out again(on a Tuesday) and I decided to really check on her and find out the truth. I decided I was going to wait in my garage so I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home. It wasn't long before headlights turned onto our street and as they got closer I could definitely see that she was with a "guy friend" from work. When close enough, his headlights flashed through the garage. As I hunkered down and hid, it was at that moment that I saw something I couldn't believe.
The real question is, what does poor Caden think of all of this?
mom is sleeping around with some guy he is told to call "Uncle Fred." dad doesn't know how to take care of a grill.. I just don't see a very bright future for young Caden..
mweir145 wrote:Does anybody else still remember DaQ's threads?
I wonder how his roommate is these days.
I assume he got through college with straight A's, never quite understanding why his assigned roommates never wanted to live with him for a second term or why none of his friends ever took him up on his offer to get an apartment together. He now has a good job that he excels at, oblivious to the fact that he secretly drives every one of his coworkers crazy, only he's far too efficient and good at his job to be let go. He'll get married one day, then after 12 years of (what he assumes to be) wedded bliss, she'll leave him because she just can't take it anymore. He won't understand that either.
I remember when people used to post personal problems of a very very awkward nature on the cafe asking for advice. Now in retrospect, I believe all the most, if not all those threads were DaQ.
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CadensDad wrote:I’ve never written about my personal problems on here, but I really need the advice of the Soundoff forum..... advice on what could be a crucial, life changing decision. I’ve suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me. I've picked up on all of the usual signs… Phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up,.... my wife has been going out with the girls during the week a lot recently, although when I ask their names she always says, “Just some friends from work, you don’t know them.”
I always stay awake to look out for her when she's coming home, but she always walks down the drive. Although I can hear a car driving off, as if she has gotten out of the car round the corner. I started to begin to think that maybe she didn't want me to see who was really dropping her off. She's very secretive with her cell phone(which just started a few months ago), and goes to great lengths to keep it with her at all times. I know she does this in fear that I may get into it and see who she's been talking to.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife because I love her and I think that deep down, I just didn't want to know the truth. However, last night she went out again(on a Tuesday) and I decided to really check on her and find out the truth. I decided I was going to wait in my garage so I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home. It wasn't long before headlights turned onto our street and as they got closer I could definitely see that she was with a "guy friend" from work. When close enough, his headlights flashed through the garage. As I hunkered down and hid, it was at that moment that I saw something I couldn't believe......The paint on my Tailgating grill is starting to rust and chip and there's only 45 days until kickoff. Does anyone know where I can get some good paint to take care of this as soon as possible?
Thanks in advance.
saged, downboated and reported to mods for no everybody get on the floor and walk that dinosaur ending.
bigh0rt wrote:I wonder how his roommate is these days.
I assume he got through college with straight A's, never quite understanding why his assigned roommates never wanted to live with him for a second term or why none of his friends ever took him up on his offer to get an apartment together. He now has a good job that he excels at, oblivious to the fact that he secretly drives every one of his coworkers crazy, only he's far too efficient and good at his job to be let go. He'll get married one day, then after 12 years of (what he assumes to be) wedded bliss, she'll leave him because she just can't take it anymore. He won't understand that either.
I remember when people used to post personal problems of a very very awkward nature on the cafe asking for advice. Now in retrospect, I believe all the most, if not all those threads were DaQ.
thank you all for recommending i go read all of DaQ's posts. has been a pretty enjoyable afternoon.
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