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Postby CadensDad » Wed Jul 20, 2011 5:04 pm

I’ve never written about my personal problems on here, but I really need the advice of the Soundoff forum..... advice on what could be a crucial, life changing decision. I’ve suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me. I've picked up on all of the usual signs… Phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up,.... my wife has been going out with the girls during the week a lot recently, although when I ask their names she always says, “Just some friends from work, you don’t know them.”

I always stay awake to look out for her when she's coming home, but she always walks down the drive. Although I can hear a car driving off, as if she has gotten out of the car round the corner. I started to begin to think that maybe she didn't want me to see who was really dropping her off. She's very secretive with her cell phone(which just started a few months ago), and goes to great lengths to keep it with her at all times. I know she does this in fear that I may get into it and see who she's been talking to.

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife because I love her and I think that deep down, I just didn't want to know the truth. However, last night she went out again(on a Tuesday) and I decided to really check on her and find out the truth. I decided I was going to wait in my garage so I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home. It wasn't long before headlights turned onto our street and as they got closer I could definitely see that she was with a "guy friend" from work. When close enough, his headlights flashed through the garage. As I hunkered down and hid, it was at that moment that I saw something I couldn't believe......The paint on my Tailgating grill is starting to rust and chip and there's only 45 days until kickoff. Does anyone know where I can get some good paint to take care of this as soon as possible?

Thanks in advance.
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Re: Need some personal advice

Postby beatdrum » Wed Jul 20, 2011 5:06 pm

Wow, just...wow.
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Re: Need some personal advice

Postby RedHopeful » Wed Jul 20, 2011 5:16 pm

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Re: Need some personal advice

Postby lastingsgriller » Wed Jul 20, 2011 5:22 pm

dude... if you really want my opinion: this is a really sucky situation. but, I think if you want to handle this right you need to just bite the bullet and get rid of the problem. try this.

replace that b*tch
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Re: Need some personal advice

Postby WaCougMBS » Wed Jul 20, 2011 5:54 pm

I don't even know what to say :*)
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Re: Need some personal advice

Postby knapplc » Wed Jul 20, 2011 6:24 pm

Keep wreves in General Talk in 2011!
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Re: Need some personal advice

Postby mweir145 » Wed Jul 20, 2011 6:29 pm

Does anybody else still remember DaQ's threads?
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Re: Need some personal advice

Postby Dan Lambskin » Wed Jul 20, 2011 10:02 pm

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Re: Need some personal advice

Postby bigh0rt » Wed Jul 20, 2011 10:31 pm

mweir145 wrote:Does anybody else still remember DaQ's threads?

I wonder how his roommate is these days.
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Re: Need some personal advice

Postby Art Vandelay » Thu Jul 21, 2011 12:46 am

bigh0rt wrote:
mweir145 wrote:Does anybody else still remember DaQ's threads?

I wonder how his roommate is these days.

I assume he got through college with straight A's, never quite understanding why his assigned roommates never wanted to live with him for a second term or why none of his friends ever took him up on his offer to get an apartment together. He now has a good job that he excels at, oblivious to the fact that he secretly drives every one of his coworkers crazy, only he's far too efficient and good at his job to be let go. He'll get married one day, then after 12 years of (what he assumes to be) wedded bliss, she'll leave him because she just can't take it anymore. He won't understand that either.
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