DaQ wrote:haha yeah I was thinking more along the lines of Great Gretzky/Snakes Gould when the weekend began.
While my roommate and I get along, it was HIM who said he was mad about the whole weekend. Apparently, I don't "get it." When I pressed him to explain what he meant, it is apparent he really has no source to why he was mad. According to him, everything I did was fine, but he was mad about one very tiny thing. On Monday, I insisted on getting back to the room at 11-11:30 instead of midnight-12:30. He thought it was so I could go to sleep very soon after that (I went to sleep a little after 1am), but I just wanted to wind down, check e-mails, and watch a little SportsCenter. My buddy had an exam the next morning, which was why I left his room (also, I was in his room for a good 3hrs). In fact, he admitted nothing would have even happened in that extra hour if I got back at 12:30 instead of 11:30. He also disn't like when I'd say "see ya in a bit" (like I normally do) when he was just chilling with the girl.
Now maybe I don't know some things because it was the first time it happened, but it seems to me he ABUSED this whole sexiling thing. Usually I would leave the room for a little while (1-2hrs?), then come back and all is good. It seemed he just wanted the room to himsef all the time, and I can't see how that would ever work. He criticized me for coming in DURING THE DAY just to check e-mails and such as well.
I'm not sure about all this, but he seems a little controlling over the whole thing. Your thoughts?
That's more than a "little" controlling. Don't let him establish that as a precendent, or he's going to stomp all over you this year. Unless he is very skilled in tantra, there is no reason he needs the room completely devoid of anyone but him/his girl. If anything, he should want you to be friends with her.