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[brewcrew4you]

Did you let him know about your friends before he mentioned the girlfriend coming? If so, then he doesn't have any ground to stand on.

There is no way that he can get a hotel room with his parents coming, however, unless they are VERY understanding people - i.e. know that he has sex, and don't care that he would be flaunting it in their presence.

You should co-opt some other friends to house your friends at night, and he just has to put up with you all being around that weekend.

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[AcidRock23]

while it may seem ridiculous, perhaps a decent way to work it out would be to offer to have you and your buddies each toss in some dough to help cover the hotel room, condoms, romantic hotel pay per view movies, etc. to get something in it for him and his babe. Even if your friends don't come, spending a weekend there while you are farting and passing out drunk in your bed after trying to get wasted enough to drown out the sounds of love from their bunk probably is not high on their lists of romantic activities. If you grease it w/ some dough, say $20 or $30 each, you get the places to yourself and can get as wasted as you want and they can unleash their wild weasels in peace and quiet with a private bathroom in which to mop up in...

That still could have a downside, when his parents arrive at the dorm while you and your buddies are having shots before you go out on the town but there's probably some way around that...as long as no one barfs in front of them...

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[AcidRock23]

while it may seem ridiculous, perhaps a decent way to work it out would be to offer to have you and your buddies each toss in some dough to help cover the hotel room, condoms, romantic hotel pay per view movies, etc. to get something in it for him and his babe. Even if your friends don't come, spending a weekend there while you are farting and passing out drunk in your bed after trying to get wasted enough to drown out the sounds of love from their bunk probably is not high on their lists of romantic activities. If you grease it w/ some dough, say $20 or $30 each, you get the places to yourself and can get as wasted as you want and they can unleash their wild weasels in peace and quiet with a private bathroom in which to mop up in...

That still could have a downside, when his parents arrive at the dorm while you and your buddies are having shots before you go out on the town but there's probably some way around that...as long as no one barfs in front of them...

Not a bad idea AcidRock, but that won't work.

Your idea would definitely make things a lot easier lol, but apparently hotels in Boston are incredibly exprensive, and far exceed our wallets. It also seems as if he really doesn't want to leave the dorm - he keeps suggesting my friends all come up another weekend (which would be very, very hard to do since they're all from different schools and have tests, papers, etc), but my buddies are coming up that weekend for sure.

I'm in the midwest and hotels are pretty reasonable but the Boston thing makes it tough. Do you know this girl? Would she be at all amused by the prospect of riding shotgun on some wild partying if you can buzz off for long enough for them to get busy a few times? Back in the day, a buddy of mine lived in a quad w/ 3 other dudes and we had a gonzo party and I consumed all but about 3 fingers of a fifth of vodka and ended up zonked out in a pool of vomit in someone else's bed and my buddy STILL ended up spending the night in one of the top bunks w/ a dorm hottie we'd all chased after for months.

I am out of ideas other than that the buddies will have to come up and it should be very romantic for them. Do you have a video camera? I suspect that you could easily turn this into a top 10 YouTube video if the personalities don't quite mesh properly...

[The Artful Dodger]

Whatever happened to your antisocial roommate? That guy rocks.

Any good youth hostels in Boston? If I were you, I'd stuff your friends, your roommate, and his experimental girlfriend in it and rule the asylum that you call your room and host a wicked party there.

[stevethumb]

talk to your resident assistant..surely he knows of a student who will be outa town for the weekend and could use that room or an empty room or at least a single who would be willing to accomodate 2 of your "boarders"..BE NICE..i would defer to your roomie and let him know that he owes you one..try the R.A. i am sure he has come across this situation before

[mweir145]

If it were me, I wouldn't back down, you'll win that game of chicken for sure. Of course you'll risk your relationship with your roommate, but if neither of you is willing to compromise and you can't find any other solution, it's the only way.

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