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Postby Spiegepj » Sun Aug 26, 2007 2:19 pm

So, I am a Sophmore in college andI have been dating this girl for around 4 months and everything was going great. Then today, she invited me over and said we were much better as friends. This came out of nowhere.

She is in my group of friends. I am really hurt by this but wanted to know the mature thing to do in this situation. I introduced her to all her friends. AKA she was nothing before she met me. This is just a really hard situation.

Do I make it hell for her. Not talk to her and make it awkard. Or do I pretend everything is ok and still talk to her? I honestly have no idea.
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Postby Jimboozie » Sun Aug 26, 2007 7:11 pm

Did she have the courtesy to give you a severance pop?
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Postby ThatDude » Sun Aug 26, 2007 7:22 pm

Jimboozie wrote:Did she have the courtesy to give you a severance pop?


Seriously. That makes all the difference in the world.
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Postby SJNez46 » Sun Aug 26, 2007 10:09 pm

ThatDude wrote:
Jimboozie wrote:Did she have the courtesy to give you a severance pop?


Seriously. That makes all the difference in the world.

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Re: I need your advice...

Postby Madison » Sun Aug 26, 2007 10:35 pm

Spiegepj wrote:AKA she was nothing before she met me.


Surely you don't mean that the way it sounds...if so, no offense, but I can see why she doesn't want to be your woman.
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Re: I need your advice...

Postby Art Vandelay » Sun Aug 26, 2007 11:06 pm

Madison wrote:
Spiegepj wrote:AKA she was nothing before she met me.


Surely you don't mean that the way it sounds...if so, no offense, but I can see why she doesn't want to be your woman.


That stood out to me as well.

Anyway, my advice would be to just be yourself and do whatever comes naturally. There's no reason to pretend that you're not upset about her breaking up with you out of the blue, but you shouldn't go out of your way to make her life hell.
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Re: I need your advice...

Postby Pablo975 » Mon Aug 27, 2007 12:05 am

Bro, there are a TON of other chicks ahead of you in your life. She'll be a mere footnote in two years. Be a man and move on. It sucks, but it's nothing a little whiskey, a cute chick and a box of Trojans won't fix, I promise you. Good luck. ;-D
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Re: I need your advice...

Postby Snakes Gould » Mon Aug 27, 2007 2:09 am

Pablo975 wrote:Bro, there are a TON of other chicks ahead of you in your life. She'll be a mere footnote in two years. Be a man and move on. It sucks, but it's nothing a little whiskey, a cute chick and a box of Trojans won't fix, I promise you. Good luck. ;-D


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i agree with just doing what comes. you might realize you really enjoy her as a friend as well.
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Re: I need your advice...

Postby brewcrew4you » Mon Aug 27, 2007 9:51 am

Snakes Gould wrote:
Pablo975 wrote:Bro, there are a TON of other chicks ahead of you in your life. She'll be a mere footnote in two years. Be a man and move on. It sucks, but it's nothing a little whiskey, a cute chick and a box of Trojans won't fix, I promise you. Good luck. ;-D


ding.

i agree with just doing what comes. you might realize you really enjoy her as a friend as well.


maybe friend with benefits, unless that's why she broke up with you...
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Re: I need your advice...

Postby Dan Lambskin » Mon Aug 27, 2007 10:52 am

yeah...she'll get all drunk and lonely one night and call...give her a good grudge-expeltiveing
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