So, I am a Sophmore in college andI have been dating this girl for around 4 months and everything was going great. Then today, she invited me over and said we were much better as friends. This came out of nowhere.
She is in my group of friends. I am really hurt by this but wanted to know the mature thing to do in this situation. I introduced her to all her friends. AKA she was nothing before she met me. This is just a really hard situation.
Do I make it hell for her. Not talk to her and make it awkard. Or do I pretend everything is ok and still talk to her? I honestly have no idea.
Spiegepj wrote:AKA she was nothing before she met me.
Surely you don't mean that the way it sounds...if so, no offense, but I can see why she doesn't want to be your woman.
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Spiegepj wrote:AKA she was nothing before she met me.
Surely you don't mean that the way it sounds...if so, no offense, but I can see why she doesn't want to be your woman.
That stood out to me as well.
Anyway, my advice would be to just be yourself and do whatever comes naturally. There's no reason to pretend that you're not upset about her breaking up with you out of the blue, but you shouldn't go out of your way to make her life hell.
Bro, there are a TON of other chicks ahead of you in your life. She'll be a mere footnote in two years. Be a man and move on. It sucks, but it's nothing a little whiskey, a cute chick and a box of Trojans won't fix, I promise you. Good luck.
Pablo975 wrote:Bro, there are a TON of other chicks ahead of you in your life. She'll be a mere footnote in two years. Be a man and move on. It sucks, but it's nothing a little whiskey, a cute chick and a box of Trojans won't fix, I promise you. Good luck.
ding.
i agree with just doing what comes. you might realize you really enjoy her as a friend as well.
Pablo975 wrote:Bro, there are a TON of other chicks ahead of you in your life. She'll be a mere footnote in two years. Be a man and move on. It sucks, but it's nothing a little whiskey, a cute chick and a box of Trojans won't fix, I promise you. Good luck.
ding.
i agree with just doing what comes. you might realize you really enjoy her as a friend as well.
maybe friend with benefits, unless that's why she broke up with you...
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by Spiegepj » Sun Aug 26, 2007 2:19 pm 
