GoD-Rays wrote:O.K. I like some off the things that I have heard, but some of the other comments were not of much help. I have ruled out movies, I want to show her that I'm creative. I have also ruled out bar because she is only 19. She kind of challeged me to do some thing cool, so it has to be creative and romantic.
I just proposed to her the idea of nightswimming and she said "possibly." I need similar ideas.
You want creative, you got it. This is sure-fire. It will take a little bit of effort but will show her that you're creative and unique. Only use it on a potential keeper. Don't waste it on anyone else. First you need to come up with 3 events/destinations that you can fit into an evening or even a day such as dinner, followed by a movie or mini putt etc., and then a coffee shop. You can substitute any event or location you want. We'll use dinner, mini putt/batting cage, coffeeshop as a generic example. Choose two potential restaurants to which you would like to take her. Write the name of each one on a piece of paper. Have her choose one and that's where you go to eat. Now, prior to the date, you have physically gone to both restaurants that you wrote down. At each, somewhere on the premesis, you have placed two more pieces of paper with name of a different 2nd destination on each (tape the papers to the back of the building or something-anywhere they won't get lost, destroyed, etc.) Go to those papers and have her pick one again. That's where you go for your 2nd destination. Naturally, at both 2nd destinations, you have previously placed 2 papers with a different 3rd destination on each one. Again, have her pick one and that's where you go for your third destination. So in all, at some time before your date, you have to visit at least 2 first destinations and at least 2 2nd destinations. The possibilities and combinations you can come up with are nearly endless. This plan might sound a little off the wall but from her perspective (if she's a keeper), you'll look like quite a guy who spent time planning and implementing a date unlike any other she's been on. I hope my instructions weren't too confusing. You can invite me to the wedding.