Wow that's very sad. If nothing else just being that easily forgotten would be terrible.
Funny this came up. I said yesterday that I want a gigantic tomb stone when I die. I mean to the point that you walk into the cemetary and say, "What kind of a jerk would get a stone that big?". I also want a strobe light at the top of it, but I bet it'd be too hard to talk the people into that.