Coppermine wrote:Girls mature faster than guys generally; relationship wise only of course. Guys, whether you like to admit it or not, want to get some. If a girl is too immature to even keep a date, that's like a twisted role-reversal. Guys are supposed to break dates when they are presented with the following scenario:
Guy has date with girl and chances of scoring a slim. Guy's friends want to go out for beers. Beer wins.
I find that girls can be just as immature as guys at this age. My first ex was the same way: she'll say something and not necessarily mean it, but otherwise she would say something out of impulse. My second ex tried to be too cute to the point she looked inane. My third ex, was truly committed to me and was comfortable with that most of the time, but there were frustrating times when she had doubts and insecurities about commitment and would run away from me when I would confront it with her in a gentle fashion. I suppose I can't blame her because her first boyfriend cheated on her, but my first two exes cheated on me, and she was on the verge of breaking up with me for another guy. But I'm behind that. However, I'm more paranoid about girls than I've ever been and I swear I'll be like my father and not get hitched until I'm 42!