Ok, I have to ask as my curiosity is now peaked....
1) 32 people????? Please explain that one.
2) Groomsmen spend 500 to 1000 on the groom? For what? I got ripped off then! My guys didn't spend but MAYBE $300 combined, including tuxes, gas, liquor, etc.
I need more wealthy pals.
Course, our wedding stuff was mostly trade outs and family & friends cooking or DJing or whatever they do, so I put out almost no cash.