warrick95 wrote:The "right" answer seems to be B, but if I was in your shoes, I'd go with A. So I'm guessing you'd rather go with A and IMO, that's what I would end up doing, too. Finally attaining the girl you always wanted is much more rewarding.
But he runs the risk of falling for the big chocolate chip diner cookie.* I mean we spend all of our lives looking at them and wanting a "taste" yet when we finally do, they are dry and tasteless.
*People from N.J. will get that.
Bottom line, you want A because, if you didn't, you wouldn't have come here looking for advice. If you must make a choice, go with your heart. From the little that I know, I would stay with B because you know it works. With A, you never know.
Big Pimpin wrote:Where's DaQ when you need him? He'd know what to do.
I do. Girl B wins.
Girl A, as some guys have already said, seems like she jsut wants a "guy". Sure, she COULD like you, but you're not really sure. You also mention that she just broke up with her bf. This means you could be a rebound for her. She's definitely cool to be friends with (benefits too? ), but she seems to have a lot of drama - maybe too much for any guy to handle.
Girl B seems to be fun, and she seems to like you. The relationship between you two is getting better and better (a lot of good momentum) and it appears that you two will definitely become serious.
Girl B showed interest in you from the start - go get her. Girl A now claims she is interested in you, but only right after she broke up with her boyfriend - looks like she'll be missing out.
+1 to Girl B. Girl A sounds as if she's not likely to yield a high return on your investment as you've already invested quite a bit and haven't got much to show for it, other than being a sounding board.
acsguitar wrote:Post pictures then we can give you better advice
Yeah Im gonna put these girls on the internet...No way
Heres what Im doing tonight:
At 7:15 I will be picking Girl A up and we are going to a basketball game (kinda like old times her idea) I am doing this as her friend, and she needs to be occupied as shes going through a tough time. At 8:30ish girl A will be dropped off back at her residence.
At 9:00 I will then have Girl B over for a movie and w/e. This should be an interesting night, and I will re evaluate the enitre "pickled" situation in the morning.
Sounds tough, but here's what I'd say. Right now, Girl A is still in her post-relationship period and she is probably a lot more likely to do or say things that she doesn't really mean. Don't get sucked into it. Girl B on the other hand, sounds like fun, sounds like she actually likes you, sounds like you may have a good thing. I would talk to Girl A while at this basketball game and say, "Look, I think we are really good friends etc and I care about you and I'm here for you but I think its important that you about me and Girl B. I'm not 100% sure where its going but I like her and I think its best that I tell you about this now and you don't find out later from some one else." Hopefully she doesn't get too pissed and if things fall through with B and A is still interested at that point jump on it.
Dan Lambskin wrote:hmmm...i think you should look at it this way...which one has the best chance of putting out...becasue otherwise, someday your going to be sitting around thinking "why didnt i bang that chick"
Yea true... I remember this girl at my highschool when I was a senior and she was a freshman. She was like 5 1 blonde and had like size 36d massive melons.
I wanted her bad but then I graduated.
4 years later I see her walking down the street at my college in SC!!
I run outside and was like hey did you go to O'Connell high school. She said yes and then 3 days later I was doing the motorboat if you know what I'm saying.
Unfortunately the evil womanly time of the month was upon her and I didn't get to totally command and conquer. She turned out to be really annoying and dumb but to this day I wish i had conquered her and what not.
So i guess at least do the motorboat with one of them and take the other one down to the paradise city at least for like 30-40 seconds if possible.