Just realized I just ranted and didn't respond to the actual question.
There really isn't too much difference between a softball and baseball swing. Its much more of a mental thing. Alot of people will either be over-anxious when they see the ball floating in looking as big as a beach ball and end up being so far out in front they pull every pitch way foul or chop it into the dirt, or they will slow their bat speed down to match the speed the ball is coming in which will lead to a ton of pop-flys.
Just get some time in at the batting cages and work on hitting the sweet spot of the bat every time while keeping your bat-speed up. Once you get that down you can worry about directional hitting by changing when you start your swing.