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Postby eftda » Tue Apr 04, 2006 4:30 pm

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Postby Simulacrum » Tue Apr 04, 2006 4:52 pm

You're not saying something specific that she really wants to hear from you.
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Postby j_d_mcnugent » Tue Apr 04, 2006 4:57 pm

could be that while you talk to her about baseball and your fantasy teams, you dont really talk about relationship type things, like who has control of the remote and if you are driving with your girl friend and your best friend which one gets to ride shotgun. its kind of hard to say exactly what it means without having it in the context of the entire conversation.
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Postby JTWood » Tue Apr 04, 2006 8:41 pm

Yeah, when girls say "talk," they don't mean, "yak." When most girls say that, they mean, "You don't ever open up to me and tell me things that make me feel like I know you more."

Here are two ways to look at what she said:

The Downside
She really thinks that you are someone she wants to get to know better, which means she might think that you are someone she wants to be really serious with - both in and out of bed.

The Upside
She really thinks that you are someone she wants to get to know better, which means she might think that you are someone she wants to be really serious with - both in and out of bed.
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Postby beltrans_boy » Tue Apr 04, 2006 8:47 pm

It's girl code for, "Break up with me, I'm a headcase and probably not worth the trouble"
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Postby AcidRock23 » Wed Apr 05, 2006 12:04 am

beltrans_boy wrote:It's girl code for, "Break up with me, I'm a headcase and probably not worth the trouble"


I have to agree w/ this. It's a lazy way of avoiding what could perhaps be challenging. You should dump her and get somebody off the local waiver wire... ;-D :-D
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Postby Phatferd » Wed Apr 05, 2006 1:01 am

Relationships suck while you're in college man. I am going through something similar right now. Basically she is saying all these things and when I chose to open up, she basically took everything I said and held it over my head and now knows everything she has over me.

Basically don't tell girls how you feel because the second they know you are into them, they know they can get away with murder and basically control everything. I basically felt it wasn't worth it and just decided to move on. No need in starting a relationship on these grounds.
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Postby JTWood » Wed Apr 05, 2006 8:27 am

Phatferd wrote:Basically don't tell girls how you feel because the second they know you are into them, they know they can get away with murder and basically control everything. I basically felt it wasn't worth it and just decided to move on. No need in starting a relationship on these grounds.

Just because you've had one bad experience doesn't mean you should stereotype the whole lot. I've had a few relationships that were very serious and later ended, and none of the women everl came back to try and hold something over my head.
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Postby AcidRock23 » Wed Apr 05, 2006 8:34 am

It's kind of like an OF who hits ____ HR and bats _____. Can you find another one on the waiver wire who will fill out whatever categories you're looking at for you? Or, if she's special in someway, maybe more like a SS or RP? :-? :-D
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