I disagree with everyone else. I don't like overly jealous girls and I think it's good to make it clear that you will occasionally think of other girls. Plus, if you continue to do what you are doing, it will inevitably pay off. I mentioned to my girl that I thought her friend Jenny was attractive and now I'm dating both. But I'm only buying 3 dinners, if you follow what I'm getting at here.
dannyolbb wrote:I disagree with everyone else. I don't like overly jealous girls and I think it's good to make it clear that you will occasionally think of other girls. Plus, if you continue to do what you are doing, it will inevitably pay off. I mentioned to my girl that I thought her friend Jenny was attractive and now I'm dating both. But I'm only buying 3 dinners, if you follow what I'm getting at here.
Good point danny. If you want a woman who will be ok with you checking out other women and making comments about them and whatever else, this isn't the one. If this is what you want, find someone else.
Seriously though, I don't think this is about checking out or thinking about other women. If he had simply said that another girl thinks he's good-looking, I don't forsee a problem. The fact that he mentioned a "HOT" girl thinks he's good-looking...that's where he slipped up.
go_jays_go wrote:Well, look at it on the flipside. If you and your girlfriend break up, you have a "hot" option waiting for you.
Probably not if this alleged hot chick finds out you ran your mouth about her liking you to everyone...
When it comes to girls you have to play it cool, Spiegs. You played it the opposite of cool there. How would you react if your girlfriend, (who probably told you this to make you feel good about yourself) started bragging to all of her friends that some incredibly hot dude (that isn't you) liked her?
That's a damn good example Sim. You should be a professor.
Da Professa.. I like the sound of that.
Hopefully you can get back on this girl's good side, Spiegs. One way or another, you've learned a lesson I'm sure. Don't feel too bad about it. I know for a fact I've learned some very hard lessons in my life. They're good for ya.