Okay, for those who want to listen to my high school girl problems.
There is this girl in my Econ (last semester), Physics, and English classes. We've kinda known each other throughout the year having 'small talk' conversations in each of these classes every so often. (Just so you know ahead of time, my longest relationship with a girl is three weeks and haven't had one since freshman year
(I'm a senior)). Since the beginning of the calendar year of 2006, it seems like she's been dropping some hints my way.
I can be a jerk (at times) so my buddies and I make fun of her when we get the chance in Physics. (Like today when she raised her hand for a while... then was finally called on and forgot what she was going to say... I blurted out, "Thanks for wasting our time." She always tells me to be nicer to her. Saying I am "too mean". She has almost always been nice to me... helping me with stuff and giving me gum and snacks all the time. So is me making fun of her good or bad (assuming I don't do it excessively)???
in Econ a few weeks back... She asked me if I had a wife for the marriage project yet (a girl already asked me to be her husband earlier) so I couldn't be with her. Was this a sign that she wanted to be with me outside school???
in Physics last week... She asked me if she wanted to study for our Physics final, the night before, together and asked for my number. We were supposed to meet up with this really smart guy that night and he would help us both, but he turned out to be unavailable and she never called. When I talked to her the next day in Econ, she said I should have asked for her number so I could have called her to study anyways. Another sign that she wants to meet up outside of class???
in English today... Since it was the first day of a new semester, she wanted to change seats because she sat across the other side of the room from me and had no one to really talk to. She'd always wonder her way over to my corner of the room, but mostly to talk with my friend. So when she mentioned changing seats to the other side of the room, I said "Oh so you can talk to (my friend) more often?"... and she was like "No Scott, I want to talk with you too." Another hint???
Okay, so I'm into this girl. I've come to know her a little better this school year and am wondering if I should make a move. This girl is fine (as in fiiiiiiiiiiinnnnnnnnnneeeeeee) and up for Winter Formal Court and is a shoe-in to win it because the two girls she's competing against are unpopular overachievers who got nominated because of their academic skills. (So she's pretty high on the high school popular totem pole) She's going to this dance with one of my friends as 'friends'. She asked him (Sadie Hawkins) so I didn't blow it, she just didn't ask me. I was never asked, so I'm not going. Anyways, I was thinking of asking her phone number for when a Physics test comes up (probably next week or two) so we can study together. I'm sure she'll give it to me.
So knowning that I've never hung out with this girl outside of school, is it okay to be more than just friends? She doesn't exactly hang out with the same people I do... What do I do?
(If you want to bash me, please do so in a PM... I don't want to get in an argument on this thread.)