I am currently dating girl #1, and while I do have feelings for her, I have much stronger feelings for girl #2. However, I do not think that girl#2 feels the same way I do. Is it unfair to girl #1 to continue our relationship if I feel this way about girl #2? Or should I stick with girl #1 anyway?
You're in HS so you can get away with having fun and doing whatever, however as I grow older I find that I want what is good. If something is good and shes a great girl, don't blow it. When you have something good, don't ruin it.
Mets4Life wrote:I am currently dating girl #1, and while I do have feelings for her, I have much stronger feelings for girl #2. However, I do not think that girl#2 feels the same way I do. Is it unfair to girl #1 to continue our relationship if I feel this way about girl #2? Or should I stick with girl #1 anyway?
Odd question....I know
Yea...this is High School just so you know
Well, here's how I see it:
Girl #1 cares about you and is willing to date you.
Girl #2 may or may not care about you, but is not willing to date you (she would have made that evident by now).
beltran_boy's Professional Advice™: Stick with #1. Forget about #2. If you go after #2, you're going to lose everything you've worked for with #1 and you're gonna end up with nothing.
HS girls are so stupid though, you could probably date both if you liked...
...and yeah, Fireball said it the best, you're gonna end up with girl #3. Relationships are stupid.
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Mets4Life wrote:I am currently dating girl #1, and while I do have feelings for her, I have much stronger feelings for girl #2. However, I do not think that girl#2 feels the same way I do. Is it unfair to girl #1 to continue our relationship if I feel this way about girl #2? Or should I stick with girl #1 anyway?
Odd question....I know
Yea...this is High School just so you know
Well, here's how I see it:
Girl #1 cares about you and is willing to date you.
Girl #2 may or may not care about you, but is not willing to date you (she would have made that evident by now).
beltran_boy's Professional Advice™: Stick with #1. Forget about #2. If you go after #2, you're going to lose everything you've worked for with #1 and you're gonna end up with nothing.
HS girls are so stupid though, you could probably date both if you liked...
...and yeah, Fireball said it the best, you're gonna end up with girl #3. Relationships are stupid.
so basically you find girl 2 more attractive than girl 1, yet you date one and wish to date 2.
or have you hooked up with girl 2?
theres usually always someone more attractive than who your dating....
side note.. last year (jr year of high school) i was on a three girl swing at the same time for about a month.. then i picked one who i dated for 4 months or so.. was a good time
Get used to it man...but remember most women are a pain in the ass and #2 is probably not better then #1. There is an old saying which is very true "No matter how hot she is, there is someone, somewhere, that is sick of her sh--!"
BigMusky wrote:Get used to it man...but remember most women are a pain in the ass and #2 is probably not better then #1. There is an old saying which is very true "No matter how hot she is, there is someone, somewhere, that is sick of her sh--!"
Dude if there was a bit of advice that I could give all guys younger then me it would be this.
Hook up with as many chicks as humanly possible between highschool and your senior year of college...Find someone senior year of college and stick with her.
Be safe about it definitly or you will drive yourself mad...but in HS especially try to get away with stuff...be a player
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by Mets4Life » Fri Jun 17, 2005 2:26 am 
